Our little Micah turned two! He is so smart now. He knows that you’ve turned off the music toy so he turns it back on. He has day to day memory now so it’s a sad day when he loses his favorite car toy. I can’t wait to experience the terrific twos!! He is so fun.
At 2 years old Micah likes:
- Peanut Butter Sandwiches, Juice, Milk, Pasta, Pancake, Cake, Peaches, Bananas, Bread, Chicken Nuggets, Beans and Rice
- CARS CARS AND MORE CARS especially Lightening McQueen
- Shoes… he won’t take off his shoes
- Car games on the Ipad
- Thomas the Train
- His balance bike that we made for him
- Reading his Thomas the Train Book
- The color blue
- A Blue Yamaha Motorcycle
- Going outside
Micah can say:
- All the alphabet except “W”
- 90% of his prayers at night
- Count from 1 to 10
- Lots of two letter phrases some of his favorites are “All Done” “Ball Wee!”
- Three letter phrases like “There you go”
- Longest sentence so far “Pee pee in the potty outside”
- Some of Micah’s favorite words are: Outside, iPad, Car, Bus, E-I-E-I-O, Temple (He calls temple bubble), Church, Popcorn, Juice, Food, Cake… cake cake …, Peaches, Baby, Abulance, Air Plane, Ball, Truck
- I would guess he can say about 150 words or more
Micah can recognize:
- All the letters in the alphabet
- Shapes and Colors
- All types of cars
Micah’s favorite songs:
- I love to see the Temple
- Book of Mormon Stories
- Wheels on the Bus
- Old McDonald
- 85% Potty Trained
- Really Funny
- Awesome napper/sleeper
- A runner
We got a box of pipe cleaners at the Euro Shop. Micah had a lot of fun with them! It was a great way to past our time while waiting for the baby to come.
We made a spider and reenacted “The Itsy Bitsy Spider”.
“Out came the sun and dried up all the rain!”
“And the Itsy Bitsy Spider went up the spout again!”
Micah is a brilliant little child. He is 21 months old. He can:
- Count from 1 to 6 skip to 9 then 10
- Knows, says, sings, and recognizes all the ABCs (Struggles with W… he thinks it’s M)
- Match colors
- Match shapes
- Knows his basic shapes: Triangle, Square, Star, Circle, Moon, Heart
- Knows his colors: Green, Blue, Purple, Orange, Yellow, Red
- Knows animals and animal sounds: Cow, Pig, Duck, Sheep, Dog, Cat, Elephant, Giraffe, Penguin, Fish, Lion, Tiger, Bear… oh my! The list goes on.
- Loves to read pictures in his book (example: A – Apple, B – Ball…)
- He loves to point out letters and numbers where ever we go!
- He loves to count his toy cars
- He loves to sign to songs: Wheels on the Bus, Itsy Bitsy Spider, Jesus Wants Me for a Sunbean, Nephi’s Courage, Wise Man/Foolish Man, I love to see the Temple, Open Shut Them, Head Shoulders Knees and Toes… are just a few of his favorites.
- He knows the difference between a: fire truck, race car, ambulance, bus, train, tractor, van
- He can make different noises for “car sounds”: Beep Beep! Boom! Vroom! Zoom!
- He can spend an hour organizing things
Micah has always done well to routines and he is really good with verbal prompts:
- Are you hungry?
- Are you tired?
- It’s nap time, close your eyes and go to sleep.
- It’s night night time
- It’s still night night time (for the odd times he wakes up in the night)
- Close the door
- Go back to your room
- Clean up your toys
- Do you want water?
- Do you want to read a book?
- Say “Bye Bye” to ______ (We say bye bye to everything)
- Dada has to go “Bye Bye”
- Can you say Hi?
- Fold your arms
- It’s time to pray
Lately, I’ve realized that Micah needs to be playing, stimulated, or learning every minute of the day. Whenever he gets bored then he starts throwing a tantrum. He needs more than just play time with toys. I recently felt inspired to add structure into his daily routine by making his play time into learning time. I try hard to make sure Micah never gets bored. It has worked so well! Here are some ideas I’ve come up with:
- Singing Time
- Story Time
- Homemade Car Mat
- Matching Colors with his toys
- I spy games
- Name the object game
- Homemade ABC flashcards
- Homemade Shape Matching
- Homemade Puzzles
- Water Play Time
- Cooking Time
- Laundry Time
- Cleaning Time
- Building Blocks
- Counting Toys
- Youtube Time
- Scripture Study Time
- Snack Time (Creative Snacks)
- Playing with Balls
- Building Forts
I will alternate activities throughout the day and week. It has worked so well that Micah wants his own free time. The last few days he has been going into his room for 30 to 45 minutes and he’ll close his door to play with his toys by himself. I didn’t know what to do with myself! I thought he was making trouble but really he just wanted time to himself. 🙂
What do you do with your toddlers?
I bought these cars from the Euro shop:
I made Micah a car mat with paper, permanent marker, tape and crayons:
I added a section so he could sort his cars by color and count them:
Micah loves this simple car mat! He can play with it for an hour!
Now you can make one for your toddler!
This is Micah. He is 19 months old and he can go pee in a bucket. He only wears a diaper to nap, when we go out, and bed time. I wouldn’t say that he’s “potty trained” but it’s definitely a start! If you’re reading this, I’m telling you right now that I’m not an expert. I only have very little experience and what worked for us might not work for you. I’m writing this post mostly for my sake so I don’t forget when I do this the next time around. 🙂
Also, if you’re potty training a girl… this post probably won’t help you very much.
Why did we start so early?
I’ve read lots of criticism about early potty training. There’s a lot of negative opinion out there warning people not to start potty training too early. However, both my husband and I felt very strongly that we should start teaching Micah. Micah was getting really horrible diaper rashes and wearing diapers was not helping.
It hasn’t really been easy. It has tested my patience and self control in may ways. I definitely don’t think early potty training is for everyone. It’s taken some time sacrifice and lots of work but, recently, it has paid off for us!
What worked for us?
- I started by taking of his diaper and letting him run around with a naked bum. (Scary! I know!)
- I got a bucket… yes a bucket not a potty. Also, I got lots of paper towels and disinfectant.
- Then I gave him lots (I mean lots) of water, juice, and milk. This allowed Micah to go every 15 to 20 minutes sometimes.
- I watched out for his “gotta go” signs. Micah would cross his legs, squat, or hold himself.
- I watched the clock and kept track on paper when he needed to go. I saw a pattern really fast of when he needed to pee and when he needed to poop.
- I tried to keep him contained in one area when I knew he needed to go soon. I read him books, watched youtube videos, or let him play with the Ipad in the kitchen next to the bucket.
- I was on alert and had the bucket ready to catch his discharge at all times.
- Every time Micah was going, I tried my best to catch his pee or poop in the bucket. Trust me… this wasn’t always easy and I missed a lot! When you miss that’s where the paper towels and disinfectant come in. 🙂
- Afterwards, I would show him what he did, congratulate him, and give him a piece of chocolate.
- This helped Micah pay attend to what is going on with his body and soon he figured out how to use those muscles. He also figured out fast that he got chocolate every time he went pee or poop in the bucket. I was trying to be really nice and encouraging at first so I would give him chocolate even if he missed the bucket but then as he got better I would only give him chocolate when he made it into the bucket.
- Then after a while of doing this catching thing… Micah learned that he can control his bladder muscles!
- I slowly cut Micah back to normal amount of liquids but I still kept time on his bowel movements. I notice what time during a normal day he needs to go without filling him up with juice. For Micah, it is poop/pee right when he wakes up, then pee ~every 1.5 hours until nap time… ect.
- By now I could give him underwear which is really nice to prevent him from touching his private parts but not so nice because it’s an extra thing to worry about.
- Now, when I know it’s time and I see the “gotta go” signs, all I have to do is help Micah take off the underwear and prompted him “Do you need to go pee?” Then I show him the bucket. He goes to the bucket, aims, and pees. Afterwards, he points to the cabinet where the chocolate is and ask me for one. 🙂
- I also started to say “sssshhhhh” to encourage him to start going when he’s next to the bucket. I don’t really know if it works but it’s just what I’ve read in the books. I also make sure to use the same potty terminology so he understands what I’m taking about.
- We’re still working on Micah to sit on a real potty to poop but it’s pretty easy to catch that too since it’s only two times a day.
What didn’t work for us?
- I read online that I could try putting Micah on the toilet/potty every 15 minutes. This got him really frustrated and angry with me.
- Making Micah sit on the potty/toilet in general didn’t work for us. I tried to read him books on the potty but sometimes it took hours and nothing would happen. Other times he would just go right after he got off the potty.
- Rushing him to the potty/toilet didn’t work because it scared him and made him frustrated. He would tense up and not do anything.
- Freaking out every time he peed on the floor didn’t work. At a point Micah was afraid of me and didn’t want to be near me when he needed to go. He would literally go hide in the corner because he was scared of me.
- Not giving Micah enough fluids was bad because I would be waiting and waiting and waiting and nothing would happen.
- Giving underwear too early didn’t work because he would just think it’s a diaper pee all over the place.
- A intense potty training day didn’t work for us because in the long run I needed to show Micah consistency.
- Too many reminders to go pee didn’t work because I would sound like a broken record and Micah would become resistant.
- Being overly excited when he had success was actually discouraging. A simple “Good job” made Micah feel better than being overly exaggerating.
- Potty training on days I felt stressed or overwhelmed was a disaster… on those days I find it better for Micah to be in a diaper so I don’t stress him out! 🙂
- If I ever got too forceful in anyway, Micah would rebel quickly. We’ve tried our best to allow Micah to choose whether or not he wanted to be potty trained.
I have no idea… just keep trying I guess. I don’t know what the future brings. One big thing I’ve learned is God is here to help even with potty training! From the beginning we felt inspired to start potty training. My husband and I prayed about it a lot. We prayed for help. We prayed that Micah would be ready. We prayed that I would be patient. My husband and I both received inspiration on how to start potty training. We counseled together when ideas fail and then celebrate together when things start working out!
What has worked for you? 🙂
I can’t believe Micah is now 18 months. Woot! He is old enough to go to Nursery at church now. How exciting! Now we just need a bunch of nursery aged kids to move into the branch so there can actually be a nursery. 🙂
At 18 months Micah likes:
- Lasagna, Ham Fried Rice, Pesto, Eggs, Sandwiches and Cold Cereal (He could live off of cereal)
- European Chocolate, Ice Cream, and Cheesecake
- Push Cars, Buggies and Trolleys (aka Shopping Cart in the USA)
- Knock on doors on our street like a missionary
- Chasing the seagulls and pigeons
- Go down the slide and be on the swing
- Conduct music in church and FHE
- Ipad (he’s a little obsessed)
- Gigglebellies and Other YouTube videos
- To read books (sometimes we have to read all his books before he goes to bed)
- To pray!
Micah can say:
- In English: Mama, Dad, Ball, Car, Dog, Baby, Whee!, No, Oh oh, Temple, Jesus, Ipad, Moo, Quack Quack, Oink Oink
- In Portuguese: Agua, Orar, Pexies
Micah can sign:
- Milk, Airplane, Teddy, Bus, Pray, Book, Spider, Telephone, Hello/Bye, “Yay!”
- Itsy Bitsy Spider
- Wheels on the Bus
- Popcorn Popping
- Jesus Wants me for a Sunbeam
- Patty Cake
- Hop you Bunnies
- Do you Ears Hang Low
- This Little Piggy
- Head Shoulders Knees and Toes
- When You’re Happy and You Know It
Micah can point out:
- Bellybutton, Ears, Nose, Head, Shoulder, Knee, Fingers (he thinks his fingers bunnies), Toes (he thinks his toes are piggies)
Micah can follow instructions:
- Set the table
- Put groceries in the fridge
- Find his shoes, socks, and jacket
- Put laundry in the washer
- Put something in the trash
- Go wash your hands
- Go to the potty
- Go brush your teeth (He loves brushing his teeth!)
- Clean up
- Blow on the food, it’s hot
- It’s time to say “Bye Bye”
- It’s “Night Night” time
Micah can answer:
- Are you hungry?
- Do you want some juice?
- Are you tired?
- Do you want to take a bath? (In Chinese)
- Do you want some milk? (In Chinese)
Here is are the pictures I took of at 18 months photo shoot. I’m very please by how these pictures turned out!
Dallin went the whole year in 2012 without eating any sugar desserts. It was his new year resolution to be more healthy. Since we’re in Europe this year he decided to add sugar into his diet again… in small quantities of course! 🙂 We can’t deny that the chocolate and pastries here taste fantastic.
We dressed up Micah as a nerd this Halloween. He was so cute in his little suspenders and crayons in his pocket protector.